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sheabutterbitch: evil-faery: sheabutterbitch: A long time ago I took a course on the sociology of...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 16:18:51 -0400

evil-faery:

sheabutterbitch:

A long time ago I took a course on the sociology of marriage and my professor said “With compromise, you both lose. As a couple, you must collaborate on the best possible outcome.” Ever since, I never prioritize compromise in a relationship, only collaboration.

this seems like a great concept and all but. what does it actually mean?

Compromise is typically thought of as a 50/50 split amongst partner’s needs. They’re both left partially unsatisfied, but this dissatisfaction is deemed acceptable because it is ‘equal.’ However, with additional effort, many problems may be solved through collaboration; keywords: additional effort.

In collaborating, one may try to make the conflict more complex in order to expand the possible positive outcomes. This requires trust in both parties, empathy, and consideration for one another’s needs.

The objective should shift from getting what you want and ‘keeping things quiet’ to making sure your partner feels heard and considered (as they should do with you). Essentially, you must trust that your partner has your happiness in mind, and you must have theirs, instead of fighting for your own best interest.

For further explanation, Google “compromise vs collaboration.”

rnr4ev: thedatingfeminist: Our culture really romanticises the idea of a brooding misunderstood...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 15:31:53 -0400

rnr4ev:

thedatingfeminist:

Our culture really romanticises the idea of a brooding misunderstood loner who’s an asshole to everyone but secretly has a heart of gold, so it’s frighteningly easy to meet a guy who treats everyone around him badly and believe without evidence that he has a heart of gold.

Don’t fall for it.

And a lapse in cruelty is not evidence of kindness.

“A lapse in cruelty is not evidence of kindness”
Bolded because that line is so incredibly important

ramipage: don’t move hank or you’ll spook the connors

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 15:15:35 -0400

ramipage:

don’t move hank or you’ll spook the connors

moonlightsuggestions: I’ve seen everything, but nothing compares to the universe I see in your eyes

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 13:54:14 -0400

moonlightsuggestions:

I’ve seen everything, but nothing compares to the universe I see in your eyes

niggazinmoscow: This is what every mayor should be doing.

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 13:54:07 -0400

niggazinmoscow:

This is what every mayor should be doing.

slavz: nautical-bro: miz-andry: trans person: hi a cis: i wouldn’t fuck you trans person:...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 13:04:34 -0400

slavz:

nautical-bro:

miz-andry:

trans person: hi

a cis: i wouldn’t fuck you

trans person: *generalizes*
cis person:*generalizes*

bro ur so woke… bro … fuck

dracenines: dracenines: lmao 4chan/reddit nerds are so fucking cranky that the SCP Wiki made their...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 09:41:24 -0400

dracenines:

dracenines:

lmao 4chan/reddit nerds are so fucking cranky that the SCP Wiki made their logo rainbow-colored for pride month that they started their own SCP knockoff

“do not complain about politics” say manbabies so fucking angry that someone acknowledged the existence of gay people that they make their own site

fromacomrade:

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 09:37:54 -0400

fromacomrade:

paladihn: detroit: become human + screenshots of despair

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 23:01:02 -0400

paladihn:

detroit: become human + screenshots of despair

pyomorphic: socialistexan: firstburrn: It’s about time people...

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 22:58:48 -0400

pyomorphic:

socialistexan:

firstburrn:

It’s about time people realize that Trump is dehumanizing immigrants and turning them into a nonexistent enemy.

So if Trump cares so fucking much about the families of victims of violent crime, is he going to have Heather Heyer’s mother come for a press conference? How about the families of the victims of the Portland Train Stabbing? How about the families of the victims from the Charleston Church shooting? How about the family of Trayvon Martin? Michael Brown? Philado Castile? Eric Gardner? Tamir Rice? Sandra Bland?

Or mention how immigrant populations in the US have lower crime rates than, and undocumented immigrants are a full 25% less likely to commit homicide than, born-citizens.

No, because the truth doesn’t matter in the face of fascist propoganda.

this is the most overtly fascist thing trump has ever done holy fuck

thekeyofmemories: For fuck’s sake, Connor..

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 16:53:40 -0400

thekeyofmemories:

For fuck’s sake, Connor..

z-ephyrs: z-ephyrs: I have been waiting for the Gokushufudou manga my entire life. It’s everything...

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 15:06:10 -0400

z-ephyrs:

z-ephyrs:

I have been waiting for the Gokushufudou manga my entire life. It’s everything I’ve ever wanted. A dangerous dude who probably did a lot of bad stuff drops everything from his previous life and turns over a new leaf to become a house husband who supports and admires and loves his wife??????? Who goes all the fuck out for her??? Amazing. Incredible. I love it. Please give me more.

Before vs After you meet your amazing, talented, beautiful wife.

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Mon, 25 Jun 2018 15:01:47 -0400

dailytweets:

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 15:01:41 -0400

dailytweets:

psyducked: I remember the second time I ever bottomed the guy...

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:55:23 -0400

psyducked:

I remember the second time I ever bottomed the guy used something he called “love garden” which was supposed to help with the pain because I said how much I hated bottoming the first time—and I was amazed! Although it still felt like taking a shit I at least didn’t feel like someone was digging in me like they were looking for a spoon in the garbage disposal. But the morning after I went to go poop and everything fell out of me with no push or anything and I noticed I had a one inch gape! 9 hours later! I spent the next 12 hours having panic attacks and considered how I would call my mom and explain to her that I needed my hole sewn up when at last I regained control and clenched back up.

Anyway, my man Elmo here is looking exactly how I looked when I went to inspect myself that morning and could slide 4 fingers in without blinking

timppmit: I don’t want racists to feel safe. I don’t want racists to feel comfortable. I don’t...

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:53:31 -0400

timppmit:

I don’t want racists to feel safe.
I don’t want racists to feel comfortable.
I don’t want racists to enjoy being racists.

morganalefays: no offense but im going to get better and im taking all of you up with me

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:51:05 -0400

morganalefays:

no offense but im going to get better and im taking all of you up with me

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Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:50:27 -0400

onyourleftbooob: xxxdragonfucker69xxx: ok underrated part of ragnarok: “and he knows i love...

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 12:21:06 -0400

onyourleftbooob:

xxxdragonfucker69xxx:

ok underrated part of ragnarok: “and he knows i love snakes”. hes just so friendly. just so famously loving of snakes that loki was like, oh, i know whatll get him, the friendly bastard

thank you for this wholesome post xxxdragonfucker69xxx

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Mon, 25 Jun 2018 09:23:48 -0400